Anonymous asked: Recently I was given a sum of money as a birthday gift, which is very rare. Not a lot, just enough to buy my close friends small Christmas gifts. This would be the first time in a couple of years that I could afford to do this because of my financial situation. These people have always been kind enough to pay my way when we go out and have always worked hard to make sure I didn't feel like "the poor one" of our friends. But, of course, there is a much, much larger part of me that wants to use the money for myself. Like I mentioned, the economic downfall has really affected my family, and the idea of buying myself something nice is driving me to distraction. In fact, I've spent the last hour gleefully searching Amazon.com for myself. The thought of using the money for others had not even crossed my mind until one of my wonderful friends asked me what I wanted for Christmas. I'm being berated with thoughts of guilt and longing. And, to be honest, the longing is almost outweighing the guilt.
I mean, do what you want to do. I think you should use the money on the gifts. Seriously, as much as it’s nice to spoil yourself, these people are always there for you, and help you out. Don’t be selfish, silly.
