Anonymous asked: So here's my situation....i've always known that i was into girls but i've never told anyone and i've never really dated a girl. I just recently decided that i'm sick of handing and i wanna be more open. I really wanna date a girl but i'm having a hard time meeting people. According to my friends "i don't look like i'd be into girls". I wasn't aware that i had to look a certain way. Is this why i'm not able to meet anyone? Should i look a certain way?
I actually felt the same way when I came out. I didn’t think I looked gay enough to get girls. A lot of people go through this weird, obnoxious phase when they come out, where they have to scream out how gay they are, wear lots of rainbows and all that good stuff. Now, there is nothing wrong with that, it’s pretty normal. But, hahah, just know it’s something almost all of us regret after it’s over, hahahaa.
If you are over eighteen, a great place to go is gay clubs. Plus, don’t go looking for someone everywhere you go. Make lots of gay friends, the romance part will follow. And don’t be afraid to hit on people!
