Anonymous asked: This might not be the right time to ask, I don't think you're feeling well, but I dont know what to do.
I dated my best friend for two weeks, and she just loved to party. She ended up cheating on me after reassuring me that she'd take it easy with drinking and going out and partying.
I'm hurt. She doesnt really understand. I just...feel miserable. I care so much about her, and our friendship is always so passionate.
It doesnt matter whats going on in our lives we can always talk and we've always been a little more than friends and always end up having feelings for each other. If either one of us dates someone, the other gets upset.
I love my bestfriend to death, but she's just hurt me so much.
I love her, and I don't know how to get through this.
I think it is time to take a break from her, from the friendship. I know that may be very, very hard to think of doing, but you can’t have a friendship with feelings involved, it just doesn’t work that way.
So you need to think of which is more important, the friendship, or the relationship. Either way, the two of you need a little break. She hurt you, you need to mend. If you just keep going back and back and back, your wounds will not heal, and you’ll end up resenting her. Take a breather, you’ll be alright.
That’s the thing about life, anon, no matter how bad shit gets, we all know one day we won’t even be able to recall how we felt how we feel now. Everything gets better, so, just do what you need to do to be happy, and it’ll all work out.
It always does, doesn’t it?
