Anonymous asked: so, i don't know if you can really help me or not but.. i guess it just helps to know that someone will read this. sometimes i just really wish i knew what my sexuality was. i identify as straight because, well that's what's expected you know? i'm a youth leader and even though my church seems pretty open to most things, i doubt someone who's struggling with her sexuality would be one of those people. and a lot of my friends are christians. i think that's where it gets hard. because if i were to ever admit my struggles, then i risk losing them as well. but i do struggle. i have for years. i find girls attractive, more so than guys sometimes. i guess my real question is... how do i know for sure what i am? i've never been in a relationship one way or another and i'm not someone who could just jump from relationship to relationship. i just.. don't know what to do anymore.
This is a difficult thing to ask. Because some people just know, and others sort of stumble upon it. I was one of those people that had to test the waters to know for sure. Sexuality, no matter your preference, is all about exploring and testing it all out. What you like, what you’re attracted to, all those things. Maybe you’re not ready to find out just yet, but there will be a time where you can try it out, and do not be afraid of what others think of you. If they are true blue, they will stand by. And God will still love you, anyone who says different is very, very wrong.
