Anonymous asked: im in a relationship. i love my gf to death and would never leave or hurt her. i plan on marrying her someday. but ive recently developed a crush on a friend. i would never act on it but i wasnt sure weather i should just keep it a secret or tell my gf or tell my friend who i have a crush on. any ideas?
A crush is just a crush. Everyone has crushes.
That whole “thinking is cheating” thing is bullshit. (To me, atleast.)
Don’t tell anyone.
It’s yours.
It will only cause trouble where there doesn’t need to be any. If you start doing things that might disrespect your girlfriend or your friend, then reconsider. But if you’re just getting little butterflies or what have you, I don’t think you’re doing anything unnatural.
If one day you think this crush is developing into more than that, then you should say something.
I am a ridiculously loyal person, and if I was in your position, I would get a little more distant with this friend. It’s not hers or your fault that this happened, but your girlfriend should be number one, especially if you are as serious about her as you say.
A crush is a crush, and if you can’t keep that under control, I would definitely put distance between me and this girl.
