Anonymous asked: Ok so thought I'd start off here....so I've been a full blown lesbian for like forever and well anyways, with my most recent girlfriend I feel like she doesn't really...take the time out to be with me you know? Or like she doesn't really notice me...I feel like she loves her clothes and phone and other friends more than me..am I being too much? Or what? What should I do? :/ I've tried talking to her about it but she insists that I'm important to her..it just doesn't feel that way to me..? lol
Simply put, you deserve to feel important in a relationship. It isn’t about how she feels like she is making you feel like that. She isn’t. She should try harder.
What’s the point of being in a relationship if you don’t feel amazing and important.
What is that amazing quote?
“Don’t make someone a priority when they are only counting you as an option”, or whatever.
Very fitting.
Now, if you are overly emotional and needy like I am, and you are asking for way too much, that’s a different story. Assess what it is your asking for, do you think it’s a reasonable request? If so, then you need to discuss it with her fully. And if it’s not getting anywhere, maybe you need to find someone who makes you feel important.
